The Day I Watched a Business Owner Have a Complete Meltdown on LinkedIn (And What It Taught Me About Social Media Management)

by JC Burrows  - October 14, 2024

Social media management is more than just posting updates—it’s about strategically engaging with your audience, building your brand, and driving measurable results. Here’s how to elevate your social media game with proven strategies that work.

Key Takeaways:

  • Social media management involves creating, scheduling, analyzing, and engaging with content posted on social platforms.
  • Successful social media strategies require a deep understanding of your audience, consistent engagement, and data-driven decisions.
  • Leveraging the right tools and analytics is crucial for optimizing social media performance and achieving your goals.

Tuesday morning. I’m supposed to be writing a press release for this tech startup, but instead I’m scrolling LinkedIn like an idiot. You know how it is.

Then I see this post. This woman in Denver – let’s call her Michelle – just absolutely losing it online. I’m talking full-on business owner breakdown about how social media is “impossible” and “designed to screw over small businesses.”

And honestly? My first thought was, “Oh honey, no.”

Because here’s the thing – I’ve been running Warrior PR for eight years now. Worked with maybe 200+ companies on their social media management. And Michelle was making every single mistake I see businesses make when they’re just throwing stuff at the wall and hoping it sticks.

But then I started reading the comments. Dozens of other business owners chiming in with “YES, THIS!” and “Social media is such a waste of time!”

That’s when I realized… most people still have no freaking clue how to make social media actually work for their business.

The Brutal Truth About Why Your Social Media Sucks

Okay, real talk time. Most businesses are completely bombing at social media because they’re treating it like it’s 2015.

I had this client last year – Marcus, owns three CrossFit gyms in Phoenix. Great guy, builds incredible community in person, but his social media? Disaster.

He’s posting workout videos on LinkedIn (nobody wants to see your burpees while they’re trying to network, Marcus). Motivational quotes on TikTok that sound like they came from a fortune cookie. And don’t even get me started on his Twitter attempts at being funny. Painful.

Meanwhile, his actual customers – busy professionals who need quick workouts between meetings – they’re on Instagram Stories looking for class schedules and Facebook checking reviews before trying a new gym.

We completely blew up his approach. Six months later his social media was driving 35% of new memberships. Same guy, same gyms, totally different strategy.

The stats are honestly depressing though. 5.22 billion people use social media worldwide, but most businesses are still posting like they’re writing a corporate newsletter from 1995.

Here’s what actually works…

Strategy #1: Stop Chasing Vanity Metrics (Seriously, Just Stop)

I was at this networking event in Austin last month (terrible coffee, great tacos), and these two guys are having this pissing contest about follower counts.

Guy #1: “I’ve got 50K followers on Instagram!” Guy #2: deflated “I only have 3,000…”

So naturally, being the nosy PR person I am, I asked what kind of results they were getting.

Plot twist: Mr. 3K Followers was pulling six figures from social media. Mr. 50K? Barely covering his monthly Starbucks habit.

Turns out 48,000 of his followers were bots, random people from countries he’d never ship to, and that girl from his high school who likes everything but buys nothing.

Defining real social media objectives means getting brutally honest about what success looks like:

If you’re a dentist, success isn’t 10K followers. It’s 5 new patients a month booking through Instagram. If you own a restaurant, forget about going viral. Focus on filling tables on Tuesday nights. If you’re a consultant, who cares about likes? You want people sliding into your DMs asking about your services.

I worked with this dental practice in Chicago. The dentist was obsessed with follower count. We shifted focus to consultation bookings instead. His followers stayed pretty much the same, but his practice grew 40% because we were targeting people who actually needed dental work, not random teenagers who think teeth are cool.

Setting measurable social media KPIs that actually matter to your bank account, not your ego.

Strategy #2: Actually Know Your Audience (Like, Really Know Them)

This drives me absolutely insane. So many businesses create these generic buyer personas that sound like they were written by a robot.

“Our target market is males aged 25-40 who enjoy outdoor activities.”

Cool. So is your target market literally every dude who’s ever been camping?

I had this outdoor gear client who was targeting “hikers.” Vague as hell, right? We dug deeper and found out his best customers weren’t just hikers – they were stressed-out office workers who used weekend adventures to escape their soul-crushing cubicle jobs.

Completely different messaging angle.

Instead of “Check out our new hiking boots!” we went with “Escape the fluorescent lights. Your weekend adventure starts here.”

Engagement went through the roof because we were talking to their feelings, not just their hobbies.

Understanding your social media audience means going way beyond demographics:

What keeps them scrolling at 11 PM when they should be sleeping? What are they complaining about in Facebook groups? What problems are they desperately trying to solve? Which influencers do they actually trust?

Use the analytics tools, sure. But also – and this is key – actually talk to your customers. Send surveys. Ask questions in your DMs. Read the comments on your competitors’ posts.

I learned more about one client’s audience from a 15-minute phone call with their best customer than I did from six months of Facebook Insights data.

Strategy #3: Create Content That Doesn’t Suck

Content is where businesses go to die on social media. They post these perfectly staged product photos that look like stock imagery, corporate announcements that read like press releases, and motivational quotes that make me want to throw my phone across the room.

Effective content strategy means understanding that social media isn’t a billboard. It’s a coffee shop conversation.

Perfect example: This bakery owner in Portland – Sarah. She was posting these magazine-perfect photos of her pastries. Gorgeous lighting, perfect angles, probably spent 30 minutes staging each shot.

Zero engagement. Like, crickets.

Then she started showing the real stuff. The 4 AM flour explosion that covered her entire kitchen. Her face when the timer goes off and she’s elbow-deep in croissant dough. The genuine joy when a customer takes their first bite.

Her engagement went up 400% in two months.

Diversifying social media content types that actually work:

Behind-the-scenes chaos (people love mess) Real customer reactions (not paid testimonials) Quick tips that solve actual problems Stories that make people feel something

Planning a content calendar doesn’t mean scheduling robot posts three months out. It means having a loose plan while staying flexible enough to jump on trends and respond to what’s happening right now.

The 80/20 rule still applies: 80% helpful stuff that makes people’s lives better, 20% “hey, buy our thing.”

Strategy #4: Use Tools, Don’t Let Tools Use You

Social media management tools can save your sanity, but I’ve seen too many businesses become slaves to their scheduling software. They’re posting on autopilot while completely ignoring the actual conversations happening on their posts.

It’s like having a dinner party and then hiding in the kitchen all night.

Essential tools that actually help:

Hootsuite or Buffer for basic scheduling (don’t overthink it) Sprout Social if you need fancy analytics and team stuff Later if you’re obsessed with pretty Instagram feeds

But here’s what Hootsuite won’t tell you in their sales pitch: social media analytics are only useful if you actually understand what the numbers mean.

I’ve watched business owners obsess over reach and impressions while their conversion rates are flatlining. It’s like being proud of how many people walked past your store while ignoring that nobody’s buying anything.

Social listening tools like Mention or Brandwatch are where the real magic happens. They tell you what people are saying about your brand when they think you’re not listening.

I had a client in home security who found people on Twitter complaining about their current alarm company. He’d jump into conversations with helpful tips (not sales pitches) and ended up converting a bunch of them into customers.

The best tool? Still your brain. Use technology to amplify your strategy, not replace it.

Strategy #5: Engage Like You Actually Give a Damn

Social media engagement is where most businesses completely face-plant. They treat social platforms like a TV commercial instead of what they actually are – conversation starters.

I see this constantly: Company posts something, gets a comment or question, and then… silence. For days. Sometimes weeks.

Meanwhile their competitor is in the comments having real conversations with potential customers. Guess who wins that battle?

Audience engagement strategies that don’t require a PhD:

Respond to comments within a few hours (not whenever you remember) Jump into conversations on other people’s posts (not just your own) Actually share and comment on your customers’ content Ask questions that require more than a yes/no answer

Live sessions are criminally underused. Instagram Live, Facebook Live, LinkedIn Live – pick your poison and show up consistently.

I worked with this financial advisor who couldn’t build trust with potential clients. We started doing weekly Instagram Live sessions where he’d answer money questions for 15 minutes. No sales pitch, just genuinely helpful advice.

Within six months those live sessions were generating more qualified leads than his expensive Google Ads. People got to see his personality, ask real questions, and decide they trusted him before ever booking a consultation.

User-generated content is another goldmine. Don’t just ask people to tag you – give them a reason to actually want to share. Run contests that don’t suck, feature customer stories, create hashtags people might actually use.

Strategy #6: Handle Crises Like a Human, Not a Corporate Robot

Every business will face a social media crisis eventually. Bad review goes viral, employee posts something stupid, you accidentally get dragged into some Twitter drama.

Crisis management isn’t about avoiding problems – it’s about handling them so well you come out looking better than before.

I learned this the hard way with a restaurant client in Seattle. Customer posted a video of a hair in their salad that got shared thousands of times. Owner’s first instinct? Delete everything and pretend it never happened.

Terrible idea. We convinced him to respond publicly with a genuine apology, explain what happened, show the new food safety measures they’d implemented. Then we invited the customer back for a free meal and documented the whole improvement process.

The crisis actually boosted their reputation because people saw how professionally they handled a nightmare situation.

Crisis planning essentials:

Have response templates ready (but don’t sound like a robot) Know who’s allowed to speak for your company Set up alerts so you know about problems quickly Focus on solutions, not excuses

Quick, transparent responses are crucial. Social media moves fast. Silence looks like guilt or incompetence. Address stuff head-on, own your mistakes, always focus on fixing the problem.

Strategy #7: Track Metrics That Actually Matter to Your Business

Measuring social media success is where I see the biggest gap between effort and results. Businesses track follower counts and likes while their “successful” social presence drives zero actual business.

Forget vanity metrics. Here’s what matters:

Engagement from your target audience – 1,000 engaged potential customers beats 10,000 random followers who’ll never buy Website traffic from social – and what people do once they get there Actual conversions – how many social interactions turn into paying customers

I worked with an e-commerce client obsessed with Instagram likes. Thousands of likes, barely any sales. They were posting pretty pictures but forgot to include calls-to-action or product links.

We focused on tracking real ROI instead of vanity metrics. Added strategic product placements, clear CTAs, tracked everything properly. Follower count went down, revenue from social media tripled.

Reporting that makes sense: Track metrics tied to business outcomes Set up proper attribution so you know what works Review monthly, not daily (social media is a marathon) Test everything – timing, content types, captions, hashtags

The goal isn’t to be good at social media. The goal is to use social media to get business results.

Why Most Businesses Will Keep Failing at Social Media

Look, I’m not gonna lie to you. Social media management is harder now than it was in 2016. Algorithm changes every other week, more competition, everyone’s attention span is shot, AI content flooding feeds.

But here’s what I’ve learned working with hundreds of clients: The businesses crushing it on social media aren’t the ones with the biggest budgets or most followers. They’re the ones who understand their people, provide real value, and stay consistent when everyone else gives up.

Effective social media strategies in 2024 need: Authentic content that cuts through the noise Real engagement that builds actual relationships
Strategic thinking that connects to business goals Consistent execution over months and years

Social media is still one of the most cost-effective ways to reach customers. You can connect with thousands of potential buyers for the cost of a few hours per week.

But only if you do it right.

Most businesses won’t follow these strategies. They’ll keep posting random stuff, chasing likes, wondering why social media “doesn’t work.”

That’s your opportunity. While your competitors are spinning their wheels, you can build real relationships with real customers who’ll actually buy from you.

Your choice: Keep doing what everyone else is doing and getting mediocre results, or implement these seven strategies and watch social media actually move the needle for your business.

The Denver woman from LinkedIn? Michelle? I reached out after her meltdown post. Turns out she was posting motivational quotes to sell accounting services. To truckers. On TikTok.

We had some work to do.

Six months later she’s generating 30% of her new clients through LinkedIn. Same person, same business, completely different approach.

That’s the power of doing social media right.


Tired of social media feeling like a waste of time and money? These seven strategies have transformed social media results for hundreds of businesses, but implementing them requires strategy, consistency, and knowing what you’re doing. At Warrior PR, we’ve spent eight years figuring out what actually works in social media management – not just what looks good on paper. Stop posting content that doesn’t convert. Contact Warrior PR today and let’s build a social media strategy that turns your online presence into real business growth.

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